You all may not agree, but this is what I do.
I really hate this way of thinking. I have definitely cut my hair off because I was sad and wanted something new. I wanted a dramatic change to make me a fresh person. I’ve done the same thing again twice for the same reason even when I wasn’t hurting. I did it for the contrast to my old, super long hair and because I never had it that short before and I wanted to experiment with how I looked.
Can we please not make it yet another thing that insists that because I’m a woman my value is measured in relation to how much a man will want to fuck me?
